Episode 239 – Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship Part 2

In Part 2 of Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship, I explore the hidden dangers of moving too fast when showing kindness and generosity in the early stages of dating. This episode continues the deep dive from Part 1, focusing on why overinvesting too soon can lead to imbalance, resentment, and even emotional disconnection.
Whether you’ve been told you’re “too nice” or you’ve experienced a partner pulling away after you gave too much too soon, this conversation will give you the clarity to protect your energy and keep your self-worth intact.

🎧 Listen to Part 1 here: Episode 239 – Part 1

• 00:00 – Opening thoughts and connection to Part 1

• 03:15 – The “Nice Person” trap and why it’s often misunderstood

• 07:40 – How early overinvestment shifts power in the relationship

• 12:05 – Differentiating generosity from people-pleasing

• 18:30 – Avoidant attachment behaviours triggered by overgiving

• 25:10 – Building attraction through boundaries and pacing

• 32:45 – Real-world examples and personal reflections

• 38:20 – Final takeaways and advice for moving forward

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📌 Full Series Playlist: Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship – Parts 1 & 2

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