120: Cheating, Jesus + The Coldplay Scandal

I knew this conversation with Kristina would be tender, heavy, and potentially triggering - but also desperately needed. We're diving into a topic that's rarely discussed from this perspective: what it's like to be the woman who steps outside of her marriage. Kristina courageously shares her seven-year journey through an affair, the crushing weight of shame that followed, and how she ultimately found healing through radical honesty and somatic work.

✨ Topics Covered

➡️ The snowball effect: how disconnection, miscarriages, and unmet emotional needs created the perfect storm for infidelity

➡️ How shame manifests in the body and mind - from compartmentalization to the desperate need to disappear

➡️ The viral Coldplay concert scandal and what it reveals about our collective judgment versus compassion

➡️ Why "judging a tree by its fruit" requires curiosity, not condemnation - and how Jesus modeled radical grace

➡️ Practical rhythms for dissolving shame: radical honesty, somatic practices, and finding safe people to hold your story

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