you single?
A No-BS Podcast About the Single Life After 30
Welcome to You Single?—the podcast for those of us navigating singlehood in our 30s, 40s, and beyond. Hosted by your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel Poppert, and the fiery and fabulous Emanuela Messineo (aka “E”), this show is for anyone who’s ever swiped left, been ghosted (or done the ghosting), and questioned whether dating apps are completely broken.
We’re here to talk about the reality of single life as grown-ass adults. Dating? Sure. But also, the joys (and occasional disasters) of being unattached. From cringey first dates to the freedom of doing whatever the hell you want, we cover it all—unfiltered, unscripted, and fully embracing our middle-aged dorkiness.
Expect hilarious rants, real talk, and the occasional deep dive into why the fuck it’s so hard to meet people these days. Whether you’re actively dating, happily single, or just vibing in between, You Single? is your place to laugh, commiserate, and own this chapter of your life.
💥 Bonus Content: Midlife Uncensored 💥
For when we’re not talking about dating, we bring you Midlife Uncensored—a no-holds-barred sub-series where we rip the band-aid off midlife. From career shifts and parenting chaos to reinventing ourselves (or just trying to survive the day), this is where we get real about the highs, lows, and WTF moments of getting older. No filters, no sugarcoating—just raw, relatable stories and plenty of humor.
So, are you single? Let’s mingle. And if you’re just here to laugh at the absurdity of midlife—well, we’ve got that covered too.
- Update frequency
- every 8 days
- Average duration
- 56 minutes
- Episodes
- 59
- Years Active
- 2024 - 2025
From Hiatus to Hinge: Our Return to the Mic
After a summer hiatus, your favorite friendly Sasquatch (Joel) and the Hot Dog Queen (Emanuela) are back with laughs, life updates, and a little chaos. From moving cross-country to deba…
Spilled Juice, Spicy Toddlers & IVF Truths: A Belated Mother's Day Chat
This special BELATED Mother’s Day edition of Midlife Uncensored is a raw, hilarious, and moving celebration of modern motherhood. With Poppy out, E holds down the fort alongside two inc…
Planned Breakups, Sex Positivity, and the Modern Dating Circus (feat. Jill & Katie)
What happens when your breakup has a calendar date? In this raw, hilarious, and unfiltered episode, Poppy and E are joined by guests Jill and Katie for a roundtable on dating in your 30…
Molly Higgins and Gary Steadman are Why Modern Dating Is Exhausting!
In this episode of You Single? Let’s Mingle, Joel and E unpack the chaos of modern dating with a real-life story you won’t believe: a woman who ghosted Joel not once, but twice, suddenl…
How to Show Interest Without Looking Desperate (Or Creepy)
In this episode, Joel and E keep it real and hilariously awkward as they unravel the mystery of how people show (or fail to show) romantic interest. From giggles over feet pics and Wisc…
The Hangover Edition: Were We Really Double Fisting High Noon's Last Night?
Still reeling from a wild Two Birds Fit March Madness pub crawl, your favorite friendly Sasquatch and E dive into dating app disasters, Poppy meets another sasquatch in the wild, and th…
Floodlighting and How We Make Up "Conditions" to Avoid Dating Defeat, plus Cougar Confessions
Buckle up, because this episode of You Single? is an absolute rollercoaster. Your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Poppy, and his fiery co-host E are back with a mix of hilarity, unfiltered…
New Name, Same Chaos: Welcome to You Single?
We’ve rebranded… again. Welcome to You Single?, where your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel Poppert, and the fiery and fabulous Emanuela Messineo (aka E) navigate the wild world of sin…
Another One Bites the Dust: The Dating Struggle Continues
Dating in midlife is a trip, and in this episode of Midlife Uncensored, we’re unpacking yet another fresh dose of rejection. E shares her latest “I got dumped” moment—because nothing sa…
Ditch the Apps & Break a Sweat: Dating IRL with Two Birds Fit's Karen Richards
Forget awkward small talk and endless swiping—what if finding love was as easy as working out in the park or running into someone (literally) at the grocery store? This week, Poppy and …
The Conversations that Divide Us: Egos, Politics, Religion, Gender Roles
Welcome to episode 49 of Midlife Uncensored! We’re nearly a year into this wild ride, and for this episode, we’re bringing back one of our favorite guests, Uche, for a no-filter convers…
The Love Laugh Lounge Takes on Dating Apps (Again)
Welcome back to The Love Laugh Lounge—the Festivus of Dating, where we air our grievances, roast our own love lives, and dish out completely unqualified advice.
In this episode, Poppy an…
From Italy to NyQuil Dreams: Banter and Big Changes
In this lively and raw episode of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E dive into the chaos of midlife reflections, recent adventures, and hilarious tangents. From recapping their year in pod…
Goals, Giggles, and Casa Bonita: Planning for 2025
In this candid and humorous episode of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E dive into their personal goals for 2025—ranging from serious entrepreneurial pursuits to quirky bucket-list items …
Dog Tongues and First Date Sushi : Another Midlife Dating Download on The Love Laugh Lounge
Welcome back to the Love Laugh Lounge, where dating disasters and midlife musings collide! In this episode, Joel and E dive into the chaos of dating apps, their strategies (and frustrat…
What Men and Women Need to Know About Each Other (But Never Learned) ft. Relationship Coach Justine Baruch
In Episode 44 of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E welcome back relationship coach and therapist Justine Baruch for an unfiltered and insightful discussion on relationships, dating, and p…
Trust Issues Unpacked: Navigating Betrayal and Healing in our Relationships ft. Blake Roberts, LPC, MA.
Discover how to rebuild trust and foster healthier relationships, especially during midlife, with insights from our esteemed guest, licensed therapist Blake Roberts, LPC, MA. When trust…
Thankful for Life, Love, and Giving Less F*cks
Join Poppy and E on this special pre-Thanksgiving episode of Midlife Uncensored! This week, we’re serving up a heaping plate of middle-aged wisdom with a side of laughs as we reflect on…
Swipe Again? A Discussion About the Reality of Dating Do-Overs
In this laugh-out-loud episode of Midlife Uncensored, your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Poppy, and the ever-sassy E dive into the chaotic world of second chances in dating. Are they wor…
Love, Trauma, and Ghosting: Real Talk on Modern Romance in the Love Laugh Lounge ft. Uche
Welcome back to The Love Laugh Lounge, where Poppy and E are joined by special guest Uche for a candid, laughter-filled, and sometimes sobering dive into the ups and downs of midlife da…