You Had Me At Cheese
After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink fluffy mics, and a recording button.
Join Venus and Eclipse as they share stories that celebrate life’s messiness and explore the full spectrum of human experience. From the highs of self-discovery to struggles with mental and physical health. Here, queerness is not just accepted; it’s celebrated.
This is a podcast for anyone who has ever felt different, craved a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them, or simply wanted more. So, whether you are seeking advice, humor, or just the comfort of knowing that you are not alone, we are here to journey alongside you.
Get ready to laugh, cry, and feel deeply. And of course… Don’t forget to BYO cheese!
- Update frequency
- every 14 days
- Average duration
- 37 minutes
- Episodes
- 13
- Years Active
- 2025
Venus's Journey With Weed (The One With The Double-Edged Sword)
What happens when curiosity turns into a habit?
In this episode, Venus shares how she was first introduced to weed, what enticed her to keep using it, and the ways it has shaped her life over time.
In this episode, Venus shares how she was first introduced to weed, what enticed her to keep using it, and the ways it has shaped her life over time.
00:42:00 |
Sun 14 Sep 2025
Hat Roulette ENFJ Clichés (The One With The Whipped Cream)
What is it really like to live be an ENFJ?
In this Hat Roulette episode, we dig into clichés about being “too emotional,” mind-reading, leadership, criticism, and always putting others first.
Together…
In this Hat Roulette episode, we dig into clichés about being “too emotional,” mind-reading, leadership, criticism, and always putting others first.
Together…
00:39:09 |
Sun 31 Aug 2025
Acceptance - Part 2 (The One With The Circus Act)
Building on the last episode, Venus and Eclipse shift the conversation inward.
Can we hold space for others while still voicing our own truth? What does self-acceptance really look like? And what com…
Can we hold space for others while still voicing our own truth? What does self-acceptance really look like? And what com…
00:39:03 |
Sun 17 Aug 2025
Acceptance - Part 1 (The One With Pineapple on Pizza)
What does it mean to feel truly accepted?
In this episode, Venus and Eclipse explore acceptance through the lens of being seen, heard, and validated. Share stories about times in which they felt invis…
In this episode, Venus and Eclipse explore acceptance through the lens of being seen, heard, and validated. Share stories about times in which they felt invis…
00:39:00 |
Sun 03 Aug 2025
Eclipse's Journey with Pain - Part 2 (The One With The Blankie)
Building on the last episode, Venus and Eclipse continue their raw conversation about Eclipse’s journey with chronic pain.
This episode picks up as Eclipse moves to Neverland, and explores how things…
This episode picks up as Eclipse moves to Neverland, and explores how things…
00:53:59 |
Sun 20 Jul 2025
Eclipse's Journey With Pain - Part 1 (The One With Tuesdays From Hell)
In this deeply personal episode, Eclipse shares her journey through the early days of her chronic pain.
Throughout the episode, Venus and Eclipse talk about how it began, Eclipse’s first experiences …
Throughout the episode, Venus and Eclipse talk about how it began, Eclipse’s first experiences …
00:37:48 |
Sun 06 Jul 2025
Hat Roulette - Queer Clichés (The One With The Ick)
Are queer love stories always tragic? Do all queer people have a coming out moment?
In this Hat Roulette episode, Venus and Eclipse pull clichés from a hat and share their thoughts on everything from…
In this Hat Roulette episode, Venus and Eclipse pull clichés from a hat and share their thoughts on everything from…
00:39:28 |
Sun 22 Jun 2025
Breaking the Isolation Spiral (The One With The Leap of Faith)
Loneliness can feel like a trap, but how do you break free?
In this episode, Venus and Eclipse open up about their own moments of deep loveliness, the factors that fed into them, and the challenges th…
In this episode, Venus and Eclipse open up about their own moments of deep loveliness, the factors that fed into them, and the challenges th…
00:32:01 |
Sun 08 Jun 2025
Venus' Transition - Part 2 (The One With Tinder And The Colleague)
Coming out is one thing, doing it at work is a whole other ballgame.
In this episode, we dive into the unexpected chaos of Tinder colliding with colleagues, the challenges of being openly trans at wo…
In this episode, we dive into the unexpected chaos of Tinder colliding with colleagues, the challenges of being openly trans at wo…
00:38:35 |
Sun 25 May 2025
Venus' Transition - Part 1 (The One With The Magical Toilet)
The journey to self-discovery isn’t always clear… until it is.
In this episode, we dive into what led Venus to transition, the telltale signs, and the pivotal egg-cracking moment that you simply canno…
In this episode, we dive into what led Venus to transition, the telltale signs, and the pivotal egg-cracking moment that you simply canno…
00:37:31 |
Sun 11 May 2025
Hat Roulette - Immigrant Questions (The One With The Seashells)
What is it really like to leave everything behind and start over?
In this episode, Venus and Eclipse share their personal experiences with immigration, before diving into a game of Hat Roulette.
From…
In this episode, Venus and Eclipse share their personal experiences with immigration, before diving into a game of Hat Roulette.
From…
00:32:53 |
Sun 27 Apr 2025
Blood Tribe vs Chosen Tribe (The One With The Homemade Ice Cream)
Is the tribe we are born into more important than the one we choose?
In this episode, we explore how our upbringing shaped us, what chosen tribe means in our lives, and the qualities we seek in the pe…
In this episode, we explore how our upbringing shaped us, what chosen tribe means in our lives, and the qualities we seek in the pe…
00:54:58 |
Sun 13 Apr 2025
Introducing Venus and Eclipse (Podcast Premieres Sunday, April 13th 2025)
Enjoy a preview of what's to come on You Had Me At Cheese!
After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink flu…
After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink flu…
00:01:37 |
Thu 13 Mar 2025
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