X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships
I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating coaches you know and love over at X & Y Communications. Join us for the most heartfelt and action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating and relationship tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. If you like the podcasts you'll love our newsletter. You can also find us on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/scotandemily. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at [email protected] or via voicemail at +1 (210) 362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate ratings and reviews on Apple Podcasts and elsewhere. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show for the past nineteen years!
- Update frequency
- every 64 days
- Episodes
- 59
- Years Active
- 2006 - 2025
Episode 85--X & Y On The Fly--Dating, Relating And Pets
Here comes a long-overdue conversation on how pets affect relationships between men and women. As you might have already imagined, this went in probably every direction you could think of and then so…
Fri 08 Aug 2025
Episode 84--X & Y On The Fly--Dealing With Your Ex (Or Theirs)
Maybe Emily and I waited almost 20 years to cover this subject because it's a touchy one that hits just a little too close to home for both of us. But hey, it's an important one. How do you deal with…
Fri 30 May 2025
Episode 83--X & Y On The Fly--What If We Have Sex Too Soon?
Nowadays we live in a culture that extols selfhood and immediate gratification. As marriage becomes less revered as an institution, lots of people are asking if there's really any reason to hold off …
Fri 21 Mar 2025
Episode 82--X & Y On The Fly--Dating And Relating: The Next 25 Years
Last week we covered how dating and relating between men and women has evolved over the past quarter century. But what about the next 25 years...and indeed the rest of this century coming up? What's …
Fri 10 Jan 2025
Episode 81--X & Y On The Fly--Dating And Relating: The Last 25 Years
Exactly 25 years and one week ago, everyone's attention was on whether or not the dreaded Y2K bug was going to crash the world's computer systems and make planes fall out of the sky. And even as we p…
Fri 03 Jan 2025
Episode 80--X & Y On The Fly--Should We Get Into A Relationship At All?
Okay, I'm going to admit right up front that Emily and I obviously believe relationships are worth getting into, since we've shared a great one together for almost 19 years. But we also completely ge…
Fri 25 Oct 2024
Episode 79--X & Y On The Fly--Is That A Dealbreaker?
In this episode Emily and I address the sticky topic of dealbreakers in a relationship. Is having too many dealbreakers--or focusing on them--a dealbreaker in and of itself? You know, the 'don't both…
Thu 15 Aug 2024
Episode 78--X & Y On The Fly--Kickin' It Old Skool With My Baby
First and foremost, if you think even for a second that this episode is going to be about two dinosaurs reminiscing about the past, you're in for a surprise. Given that we've been totally immersed in…
Fri 07 Jun 2024
Episode 77--X & Y On The Fly--Underrated Ways To Know You've Found "The One"
Lots of dating and relationship advice talks about how to know when you've finally met the right partner to build a long-term relationship with. And yes, by now we know the basics about attraction, '…
Fri 29 Mar 2024
Episode 76--X & Y On The Fly--Dating And Relationships With Someone Younger
Finally, here's the full episode on a topic that everyone wonders about. It's no secret that men often want to date younger women. But what is it about those guys who are actually successful at doing…
Fri 19 Jan 2024
Episode 75--X & Y On The Fly--First Date Weirdness? You Are NOT Alone
If you've been out there dating for any time at all, you've likely compiled your fair share of weird dating stories. It's easy to think that those situations could only happen to you, and you've GOT …
Fri 10 Nov 2023
Episode 74--X & Y On The Fly--Creepy People
We've all found ourselves out on a date with someone who creeped us out. And no...it's not gender-specific. But what does 'creepy' even mean? Why is it often so hard to define? Well, in this episode …
Fri 01 Sep 2023
Episode 73--X & Y On The Fly--What Does A Normal Relationship Look Like?
Every couple thinks and behaves differently. You've probably thought and behaved differently depending on who your significant other was at a particular time in history. But for sure there are, well.…
Fri 23 Jun 2023
Episode 72--X & Y On The Fly--All About Power Couples
You hear the term 'power couple' quite a bit, but what exactly does it mean? We know one when we see one, for sure. But is it necessarily a good thing? Would we want to team up with our significant o…
Fri 14 Apr 2023
Episode 71--X & Y On The Fly--What Dating Is Like For Attractive Women
It seems to everyone paying attention that beautiful women enjoy a massive 'halo effect'. It's like they're treated like celebrities--or even royalty--everywhere they go. But what else is going on th…
Fri 03 Feb 2023
Episode 70--X & Y On The Fly--Weed Out The Wrong Ones
Who knows why this topic hadn't been covered yet around here? My edumckayted guess is it probably had something to do with repressed memories. Yes, Emily and I both are survivors of first marriages a…
Fri 25 Nov 2022
Episode 69--X & Y On The Fly--Blended Families
Let's face it, when single moms and single dads get together, it's pure naive idealism that would cause us to expect we're creating our own Brady Bunch. The reality of blended families is much differ…
Fri 02 Sep 2022
Episode 68--X & Y On The Fly--Words That Cannot Be Unsaid
As the lyrics of one of Tyler Childers' songs say, 'There is hurt you can cause that time alone cannot heal'. When it comes to our interactions with women, a breathtaking amount of that pain is cause…
Fri 17 Jun 2022
Episode 67--X & Y On The Fly--Who is Jen, And Why Is She Texting You?
No matter how well a couple gets along and navigates their relationship, there always seems to be a challenge to your relationship coming from somewhere. It can start with the best man's TMI speech d…
Fri 01 Apr 2022
Episode 66--X & Y On The Fly--The Little Things That Make A Relationship Suck
In the second installment of our two-part episode, Emily and I break down the little things couples do (often to each other) that make a relationship suck. To kick things off, we talk about the scene…
Fri 31 Dec 2021
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