Season 2 Episode 16 with Idongesit Obeya

Soulfulness | Professor | Hurdles | Opportunities | Growth |
Challenge | Acceptance | Lemonade | Community | Support

In this episode of "When I Stop Fighting," host Daryl Dittmer converses with Idongesit Obeya, a Nigerian nursing professor and podcast host. Dittmer expresses his admiration for Idongesit’s vibrant personality, which he discovered during his recent appearance on her podcast. 

Idongesit also introduces herself as Professor Obeya, and shares insights about her life journey, which includes her roles as a professor and host of two podcasts: the "Abeg Vex Podcast" and one focused on medical education, Unshelling Medicine. Throughout the conversation, Idongesit discusses the challenges she has encountered and the importance of self-reflection in navigating these hurdles. She highlights that responses to obstacles can either involve inward healing or outward blame, comparing this to the stages of grief—where one experiences anger, depression, and acceptance.

A key theme in the discussion is the idea of turning challenges into opportunities for growth, captured in the metaphor of making "lemonade out of lemons." Idongesit emphasizes the importance of recognizing what deserves one's energy, particularly when facing biases and external pressures. 

Additionally, Idongesit shares a personal anecdote about preparing for her daughter’s birthday amidst her responsibilities, revealing a balance of joy and chaos in motherhood. Despite overspending time and energy on party supplies, her focus remains on creating a happy experience for her child.

Overall, the podcast presents a meaningful dialogue about personal growth, resilience, and the value of community support, encouraging listeners to engage authentically in their journeys and learn from life’s challenges. Idongesit's experiences serve as an inspiration for navigating life's complexities with determination and grace.