Episode 140: When to Tip and When Not to

When the tablet spins and the tip options stare back, it’s easy to feel that flush of guilt and confusion. In this episode, Autumn Carter sits down with money coach Prisca Benson to untangle when to tip, when not to, and how to make choices that align with your values and budget. Prisca traces the history of tipping in the U.S., explains why it became embedded in certain industries, and offers a clear, compassionate framework for deciding: Does this worker rely on tips, was real service provided, did they go above and beyond, and is it in your budget? Together, they talk through everyday gray areas—pickup orders, self-checkout, salons, delivery apps, hotels, even the car-wash conundrum—and why 20% remains a common benchmark in many service settings. You’ll learn simple ways to reduce decision fatigue, separate emotion from money, and plan ahead so generosity feels intentional instead of pressured.

Connect with Prisca Benson and explore her work: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourgreenlifenj, LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/prisca-j-benson, Work with Prisca: https://ourgreenlifenj.com/work-with-me/. Grab her free guide “Three Steps to Financial Freedom”: https://ourgreenlifenj.kit.com/freedomguide?utm_source=autumn-carter&utm_medium=podcast.

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