Secrets are for magicians, not marriages. As a magician, I don’t keep secrets from people; I keep secrets for people. If I shared the secrets of my illusions, the audience would miss out on the wonder, the magic, and the astonishment of a great show.
In a marriage, secrets destroy trust, kill hope, and cause spouses to miss out on the beautiful friendship they could have with each other. Secrets in marriage never bring out the wonder, magic, and astonishment of a great relationship.