Episode 11: Overcoming Fears in Your Marriage

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Fear in our Marriages

Intro- 
I am a professional magician and a pastor.
I am working towards my license as a Marriage and Family Therapist.

K-Today we are talking about fears that we have in our marriages and how they affect us.

D- First of all, our beliefs determine our actions. (Repeat)
Explain

K- We all have fears, but some of them come from lies we believe or lies we have been told and we act of those, but they simply are not true. For some of us, our fears tell us that we are not enough, we are not lovable, but if we let these fears drive our marriages, we start reacting and responding out of fears instead of facts and truth. 

D- Fears can be about how our spouse might spend our money.
-fears about our spouse flirting with someone at work or online
-fears about things in our past
-fears about our own insecurities
Whatever your fears are, the KEY is that as a couple you don’t operate your life based on your reactions to those fears. Fear- based decisions lead to more failures than successes.

D- story of 18 magician

K- challenge for you today, talk with your spouse about those fears and the next time you have a big reaction to something ask your self if you are reacting out of fear or facts.
See you next time, talking about Escaping the Traps of Social Media!