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Untoxicated Podcast

Sheri and Matt Salis just wanted a normal life – normal marriage, normal careers, a normal house and happy kids. Instead, they lived a life of lies and terror as they struggled with Matt’s alcoholism. While their experience sounds rare, with over 15 millions problem drinkers in America, their alcoholic marriage was all too normal.



Matt has been writing about their experiences in alcoholism and recovery for years. On the Untoxicated Podcast, Sheri and Matt talk about it, too.



No subjects are off limits as the couple discusses the trauma of active addiction, the pain of early recovery, the destruction and rebuilding of trust, and the impact on their intimate relationship. If you love an alcoholic, the disease will terrorize your relationship. We hope you’ll listen and find healing in our shared stories.



For more support from Sheri and Matt, check out their Echoes of Recovery program providing connection and healing for the loved ones of alcoholics.

Society & Culture Education Self-Improvement Health & Fitness Relationships
Update frequency
every 5 days
Average duration
59 minutes
Episodes
323
Years Active
2020 - 2025
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Sober and Unashamed: Senseless Urgency

Sober and Unashamed: Senseless Urgency

New from Sober and Unashamed: “Senseless Urgency”

We have published hundreds of essays on alcoholism, recovery, sex and intimacy, underlying issues, growth and progress. Maybe you love to read, but j…

00:08:18  |   Thu 11 Sep 2025
Ep312 – Complain Constructively with Lara Hammock

Ep312 – Complain Constructively with Lara Hammock

Lara Hammock is a licenced clinical social worker and mental health therapist working with both individuals and couples. She is creative and inventive, and Lara joins Sheri and Matt to share her COME…

01:25:02  |   Mon 08 Sep 2025
Sober and Unashamed: A.B.D.

Sober and Unashamed: A.B.D.

New from Sober and Unashamed: “A.B.D.”

We have published hundreds of essays on alcoholism, recovery, sex and intimacy, underlying issues, growth and progress. Maybe you love to read, but just don’t s…

00:13:16  |   Thu 04 Sep 2025
Ep311 – Restriction Leads to Rebellion

Ep311 – Restriction Leads to Rebellion

Even when done with loving intent, restriction and control does not lead to the desired results of obedience and conformity: restriction leads to rebellion. Just ask anyone ever who has tried to cont…

01:01:16  |   Mon 01 Sep 2025
Sober and Unashamed: Good Morning, Gorgeous

Sober and Unashamed: Good Morning, Gorgeous

New from Sober and Unashamed: “Good Morning, Gorgeous”

We have published hundreds of essays on alcoholism, recovery, sex and intimacy, underlying issues, growth and progress. Maybe you love to read, …

00:10:22  |   Thu 28 Aug 2025
Ep310 – Questions for Sheri, Part 2

Ep310 – Questions for Sheri, Part 2

Sheri answers listener questions about everything from her rock-bottom moments that resulted from Matt’s alcoholism, to what she would do differently if she had the chance to do it all over again. Ma…

01:17:44  |   Mon 25 Aug 2025
Sober and Unashamed: Dudes on the Struggle Bus

Sober and Unashamed: Dudes on the Struggle Bus

New from Sober and Unashamed: “Dudes on the Struggle Bus”

We have published hundreds of essays on alcoholism, recovery, sex and intimacy, underlying issues, growth and progress. Maybe you love to rea…

00:16:00  |   Thu 21 Aug 2025
Ep309 – Evolution and the Impact of Men’s Sexual Power

Ep309 – Evolution and the Impact of Men’s Sexual Power

Evolutionary Psychologist Dr. Menelaos Apostolou does research around this unfortunate historical fact: Until sometime in the past 100 years, men had all the sexual power in most cultures around the …

00:59:40  |   Mon 18 Aug 2025
Sober and Unashamed: Courtesy Flush

Sober and Unashamed: Courtesy Flush

New from Sober and Unashamed: “Courtesy Flush”

We have published hundreds of essays on alcoholism, recovery, sex and intimacy, underlying issues, growth and progress. Maybe you love to read, but just…

00:12:43  |   Thu 14 Aug 2025
Ep308 – We’re Not Rooting for Divorce, We’re Rooting for You

Ep308 – We’re Not Rooting for Divorce, We’re Rooting for You

We’re not rooting for divorce, we are rooting for people to be treated with respect. And in the absence of respect, we are rooting for people to extract themselves from a toxic situation. After they …

01:02:33  |   Mon 11 Aug 2025
Sober and Unashamed: (Un)Lone Bone

Sober and Unashamed: (Un)Lone Bone

New from the Underlying Issues Series on Sober and Unashamed: “(Un)Lone Bone”

We have published hundreds of essays on alcoholism, recovery, sex and intimacy, underlying issues, growth and progress. …
00:07:24  |   Thu 07 Aug 2025
Ep307 – Fear of Resentment Processing

Ep307 – Fear of Resentment Processing

Maybe people don't need more instruction about how to do resentment processing. What people need is an acknowledgement of their fear of resentment processing. The fear is quite real, and Sheri and Ma…
01:05:42  |   Mon 04 Aug 2025
Sober and Unashamed: Bitch

Sober and Unashamed: Bitch

New from the Underlying Issues Series on Sober and Unashamed: “Bitch”

We have published hundreds of essays on alcoholism, recovery, sex and intimacy, underlying issues, growth and progress. Maybe yo…
00:06:30  |   Thu 31 Jul 2025
Ep306 – A Unique Recovery Approach with Amber Hollingsworth

Ep306 – A Unique Recovery Approach with Amber Hollingsworth

Amber Hollingsworth makes her fourth appearance on the podcast to talk about how she developed her innovative approach to addiction recovery that involves both the substance user and the family membe…
00:58:06  |   Mon 28 Jul 2025
Soberlink Endorsement from Amber Hollingsworth

Soberlink Endorsement from Amber Hollingsworth

Amber Hollingsworth is a licensed addiction counselor who has been working with individuals and families struggling with addiction since 2004. She hosts and produces one of the most valuable resource…
00:05:00  |   Fri 25 Jul 2025
Sober and Unashamed: Marriage Rash

Sober and Unashamed: Marriage Rash

New from the Underlying Issues Series on Sober and Unashamed: “Marriage Rash”

We have published hundreds of essays on alcoholism, recovery, sex and intimacy, underlying issues, growth and progress. …
00:08:24  |   Thu 24 Jul 2025
Ep305 – From Stubborn to Support

Ep305 – From Stubborn to Support

"There's always a but when you're dealing with an ass." Sheri explains Matt's reluctance to seek sobriety support for his active alcoholism. If you hesitate to ask for help, if your partner refuses t…
01:17:56  |   Mon 21 Jul 2025
Sober and Unashamed: Keep My Food Out of Your Mouth

Sober and Unashamed: Keep My Food Out of Your Mouth

New from the Underlying Issues Series on Sober and Unashamed: “Keep My Food Out of Your Mouth”

We have published hundreds of essays on alcoholism, recovery, sex and intimacy, underlying issues, grow…
00:07:51  |   Thu 17 Jul 2025
Ep304 – Putting Confidence into Action Roundtable

Ep304 – Putting Confidence into Action Roundtable

Live from the 2025 Echoes of Recovery retreat along Bear Creek in the Rocky Mountains our roundtable discusses the challenges of putting their confidence that their partners' drinking is problematic …
01:18:33  |   Mon 14 Jul 2025
Sober and Unashamed: Do You See What I See?

Sober and Unashamed: Do You See What I See?

New from Sober and Unashamed: “Do You See What I See?”

We have published hundreds of essays on alcoholism, recovery, sex and intimacy, underlying issues, growth and progress. Maybe you love to read,…
00:06:23  |   Thu 10 Jul 2025
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