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#18-Solo-Is it bad to be chopped?

Author
Ryan Hu
Published
Fri 06 Jun 2025
Episode Link
https://unswamped.podbean.com/e/18-solo-is-it-bad-to-be-chopped-unattractive-or-ugly/

In this episode, I talk about change and whether it’s okay to be ugly.


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The Alchemist, Paulo Coelho...



  • “God has prepared a path for everyone. You just need to follow the omens.”

  • “I see the world in terms of what I would like to see happen, not what actually does.”

  • A curious one; “When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.”


Youtube Videos and Podcasts I liked!

I tried to 'Cold Approach' 100 girls without any experience (Introvert vs Girls):

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sMr1ddukSQ4&ab_channel=DylanMcKnight 

 

I Tried Teaching an Awkward Virgin How to Cold Approach:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z7DIqN3KOo4&ab_channel=BenjaminSeda 

 

How I'm dealing with wanting a gf while I'm still building myself…:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=03ZhMIzDqZI&ab_channel=JakPiggott 

 

Simple cold approach: Introvert to Social Confidence in 5min:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efhstinc2Fo&ab_channel=CoachKyle 

 

Cold Approach As A Daily Habit:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOwryGLERDY&ab_channel=SebJones 

 

How To Believe You Are Worthy Of The Love you Desire Jillian Turecki:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/6IYRDOyhtuGmjYcv88Do4y?si=4eeed9a85bfa41a2 

 

The Price of Lust | A Biblical Warning:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xsUBvZbuXvU&ab_channel=Goded 

 

I spent $20,000 on OnlyFans. (my addiction):

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ptXXG1wttk&ab_channel=DylanMcKnight 

 

The Search for Self-Love with podcaster Lewis Howes:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/69S9mLrITgkyIUsEGqrhQH?si=60dd41a01e8d400a 

 

Ep 561- Beautiful Things:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/75uiVDrOjctrlqVOmdrzAp?si=3fbd8a1374af4945 


00:00 Overcoming Anxiety to Start Recording

01:10 Embracing Authenticity and Personal Growth

02:26 Musical Inspirations and Confidence Boost

04:19 Exploring Self-Image and Appearance

05:58 Reflections on Confidence and Humor

08:52 Being Normal/Infinity Stones Aura

11:27 The Importance of Self-Reliance

15:35 Understanding Attraction and Self-Worth

23:21 Projection and Evolution

51:16 Exploring New Experiences

51:56 Therapist's Advice: Try New Things

52:51 Balancing Honesty and Politeness

55:37 Navigating Social Interactions

56:25 Nutrition and Health Journey

59:59 Understanding Psychological Suffering

01:13:19 Childhood Insecurities and Growth

01:22:23 The Quest for Authenticity

01:34:00 Popularity and Self-Worth

01:41:41 Cold Approaching Anxiety

01:42:33 Romantic vs. Platonic Approaches

01:43:34 Building Social Confidence

01:45:29 The Summer 100 Challenge

01:50:47 Navigating Awkward Interactions

01:53:07 Finding a Job and Social Connections

01:53:43 Self-Love and Authenticity

02:07:29 Lust and Its Impact

02:15:19 Final Thoughts and Reflections


https://unswamped.podbean.com/e/18-solo-is-it-bad-to-be-chopped-unattractive-or-ugly 

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