#14-Maggie Krongard and Lauren Holst-How to find yourself, find your friends, and become that IT GIRL

High school seniors Lauren and Maggie engage in a deep conversation about their strong bond, the dynamics of their friendship, and their personal growth throughout high school. They discuss various topics such as authenticity, dealing with social anxiety, the challenges of maintaining individuality, and the importance of therapy. They also touch on experiences of peer pressure, substance use, and the significance of forming genuine connections. We talk about aspirations, summer plans, and their upcoming transitions to college.

00:00 Introduction and Class Expectations

00:45 Friendship Dynamics and Communication

02:58 Building Confidence and Authenticity

09:31 Introversion vs. Extroversion

21:29 Therapy and Personal Growth

39:33 Navigating Social Dynamics at Parties

40:06 The Joy of Dressing Up and Making Memories

41:02 Finding Personal Style and Confidence

43:35 Thrifting Adventures and Fashion Finds

48:10 The Thrill of Concerts and Music Discovery

01:02:32 Struggles with Addiction and Overcoming Challenges

01:15:51 Starting Smoking to Fit In

01:16:39 Finding Joy in Concerts and Puppy Love

01:17:25 Struggles with Nicotine Addiction

01:18:38 Avoiding Substance Use at Parties

01:20:53 The Reality of Party Relationships

01:29:37 The 'It Girl' Pyramid

01:36:27 Navigating High School Friendships

01:39:58 Crying and Emotional Expression

01:43:59 Preparing for College Separation

01:49:04 Navigating Friendships and Personal Growth

01:49:27 The Complexities of Crying and Empathy

01:52:15 The Burden of Being the Therapist Friend

01:54:13 High School Stress and Panic Attacks

01:55:57 Creating Safe Spaces in School

01:57:08 The Concept of Stimming and Neurodivergence

02:01:58 Fears and Reflections on Life

02:17:52 Summer Plans and Future Aspirations

02:24:24 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude

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