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Online Perception Vs Real Life: Navigating Misunderstandings in Visibility

Author
Christina Olivarez
Published
Thu 28 Aug 2025
Episode Link
https://shows.acast.com/unapologetically-visible/episodes/68afa90a1ec4fc75768b21e8

In this episode of Unapologetically Visible, I discuss the challenges of being a visible leader, particularly for women of color. I explore the gap between online personas and real-life identities, the impact of parasocial relationships, and the weight of being misunderstood. I'm also going in-depth, emphasizing the importance of owning one's voice and truth, rather than seeking validation from others. I'm also providing insights into coaching clients through these challenges and encourage you to embrace your visibility unapologetically.



00:00 Introduction to Visibility and Misunderstanding

01:20 The Weight of Being Misunderstood

05:07 Navigating Parasocial Relationships

08:56 The Cost of Leadership

13:39 Coaching Through Visibility Challenges


Takeaways


The gap between online persona and real-life identity is significant.

Misunderstandings often stem from projections based on curated content.

Parasocial relationships can distort perceptions of who we are.

Chasing validation can hinder personal and professional growth.

Visibility brings both opportunities and judgment.

It's essential to own your voice and truth.

Not everyone will like you, and that's okay.

Social media cannot capture the fullness of who you are.

Coaching can help navigate feelings of being misunderstood.

Being visible is about serving those who need your voice.


Links:

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Let's work together- 1:1 Coaching: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/coaching

Listen to more Podcast episodes: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/podcast



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