What happens when the identity you built your whole life around suddenly changes?
In Episode 31 of TURTZED, Charlie sits down with Jake, a content creator and former college football player, for an open and emotional conversation about evolving identity, breaking free from societal molds, and rediscovering passion after sports. Jake shares how his life shifted after football, how he navigated coming out publicly, and how social media became a platform for authenticity, chaos, and connection.
If you’ve ever felt trapped in a version of yourself that no longer fits—or are navigating a big life transition—this conversation will remind you that reinvention is always possible.
Your Identity Is Allowed to Evolve – Just because you once loved something doesn’t mean you have to stay tied to it forever.
Resentment Can Be Healed Through Understanding – Working through family dynamics and finding compassion can help release old anger.
Authenticity Is More Powerful Than Perfection – Showing up as your full, messy, real self resonates more than a curated image ever could.
Social Media Can Be a Tool for Healing – Sharing openly can create connection, foster community, and even serve as a form of journaling.
Passion Isn’t Linear – You can—and should—pivot as often as you need to in order to find joy and fulfillment.
Your Story Can Help Others – Vulnerability isn’t weakness. Sharing your experiences can give others the courage to step into their own truth.
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00:00 The Journey of Identity and Passion
11:35 Navigating Life After Sports
18:35 Coming Out and Self-Discovery
22:16 The Connection Between Sports and Social Media
23:02 Support and Understanding from Family
25:01 Authenticity in Social Media
27:36 Self-Reflection Through Social Media
30:40 The Role of Vulnerability in Connection
34:25 Pursuing Passion and Fulfillment
35:24 Learning from Negative Feedback
40:23 The Journey of Authentic Expression