Finding Strength and Authenticity – My Journey Through Perfectionism, Trauma, and Coming Out (Ep. 1-4) | Ep. 28

What happens when you stop chasing perfection and finally let yourself be seen?

In Episode 28 of TURTZED, Charlie launches the podcast and shares his unfiltered story and how he found his voice, letting go of perfection, and choosing authenticity. Recorded the night before launch—with a few family members in the background for moral support—this episode sets the foundation for everything to come.

Charlie opens up about his healing journey through therapy, breaking free from old family patterns, redefining Valentine’s Day as a celebration of self-love, and how changing his last name became a pivotal step toward living authentically. It’s honest, emotional, funny, and exactly the kind of conversation he hopes to have with you each week.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

Charlie shares his personal journey from striving for perfection to embracing vulnerability. You’ll hear how his past shaped his present, the emotional turning points that led to change, and why authenticity—not perfection—is the real goal. Plus, you’ll learn about the powerful symbolism behind the name “TURTZED” and how reclaiming identity can fuel growth.

Key Takeaways:

Perfection is the Enemy of Growth – Chasing perfection keeps you stuck. Progress happens when you show up imperfectly but authentically.

Your Past Shapes You, But It Doesn’t Define You – Healing begins when you acknowledge your story and reclaim your power to write a new one.

Self-Love Is a Daily Practice – Redefining celebrations like Valentine’s Day can anchor you in self-compassion and reflection.

Changing Your Name Can Be Empowering – Reclaiming your identity is a powerful act of autonomy, growth, and authenticity.

Healing Happens One Step at a Time – Small shifts add up. You don’t have to overhaul your life overnight to move toward authenticity.

Community and Connection Matter – Sharing your journey not only heals you but creates a ripple effect that inspires and uplifts others.

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Part 2: 19:52

Part 3: 38:00

Part 4: 54:05