We Don't Negotiate with Terrorists Let me preface this intro by stating that I'm a married woman. There I've said it. Now that I've gotten that out the way in this week's episode I provide some tips on how to stop dealing with individuals who continue to not live up to the expectations you have of them. Romantic relationships are hard and I know from experience and from listening to my friends' experiences that the single life can suck...at times. That does not mean that settling for disrespect and disloyalty is okay. Terrorists in this case is anyone who is terrorizing your life by making you do crazy things in the name of so-called love. Stop negotiating with terrorists and move on to someone better!