Singleness can make a woman feel unwanted, unlovely, different, left out, behind, and a whole lot of other things that are a major shot to our deepest sense of worth. Today, let me help you turn what feels like a curse into an opportunity, as I share with you 15 ways you can turn singleness on its head and use it to build and maintain your confidence!
1) Do Embrace Your Sadness
2) Don't Lower Your Standards
3) Do Elevate Your Clothes and Your Company (your self-concept is not defined by a man - be who you want to be now)
4) Don't Put Yourself in Stupid and Scary Situations Out of Desperation
5) Do Put Yourself in Smart and Scary Situations to Grow
6) Do Dive into Healthy Self-Discovery
7) Do Serve & Give
8) Do Travel
9) Don't Make Your Experience Personal
10) Do Discover & Refine your Strengths
11) Don't Have Sex
12) Do Take Up Space in Church and Help Challenge the Marriage-Centric Culture
13) Do Stay in Community - Don't get too isolated
14) Do Circular Date
15) Change Your Belief that Singleness is a Gift
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Much Love!
<3 Rebekah