719: Darrin Charles | Getting Comfortable with Trusting Yourself

Who are you when the external success is stripped away? Darrin Charles, former NFL athlete turned Actor (speaker/educator), realized it comes down to trusting yourself to develop internal success.
Today, Darrin is continuing to entertain and inspire audiences, working on films and other creative projects designed to help people uncover and discover more of who they are and what they truly want out of life. He speaks to athlete’s guiding them through their transition and journey from the game of sports to the game of life. He also helps people envision new dreams and bigger goals – and what it takes to get there.
Dive into the episode to learn what can happen when you get comfortable with trusting yourself and developing your internal success.

Things you will learn in this episode:
[00:01 - 04:01] Opening Segment 

I introduce today’s guest, Darrin Charles

Darrin gives his background 

Hiding behind athleticism 

Darrin’s family upbringing

[04:02 - 14:40] Getting Comfortable with Trusting Yourself

Darrin’s entrance to full-time football

Getting signed by the Chicago Bears 

Realizing that the sports career has to come to a close 

Not setting your goal far enough 

Darrin talks about making a big transition

Feeling secure and trusting yourself

Navigating feeling like you’re letting down people 

Getting comfortable with trusting yourself

Shifting from external success to developing internal strength

Going on an adventure of developing the internal person

Creating a new network of relationships 

Seeing the value of the inner world

A quick word from our sponsor

[14:41 - 22:16] Darrin Charles on Building Your Network

Who you know or what you know? 

What you know is a great start

Giving your what as value to the who 

Who you know is ultimately more important

Darrin’s key strategies to network 

Find a value or skill to bring to the table

One of the best values you can give is kindness

Know the “why” behind your networking 

Your network is the answer to what you’re looking for

How to check your intentions when networking 

You won’t know until you understand yourself 

Darrin’s work with helping student-athletes 

Darrin talks about providing value through his book club

[22:17 - 27:26] Closing Segment  

Darrin’s advice to his younger self

Giving resources to get educated 

Push the kindness factor and crack open the door to possibility 

ThE RaNDoM RoUnD

How to connect with Darrin

Links below 

Final words 

 
Tweetable Quotes: 
“A part of me felt that I had achieved what I set out to achieve… In many ways, I didn’t set my goal far enough.” - Darrin Charles

“Any pursuit that is beyond what you’re capable of is really about trust and faith… You learn that even in your failures, it’s setting you up for another success.” - Darrin Charles

“Everything you want is within a conversation and everything you want is within your network that already exists.” - Darrin Charles 

Resources Mentioned: 

Darrin Charles Bookclub YouTube

 
Want to connect with Darrin? You can follow him on Instagram and LinkedIn.
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