579: Mark Manson | Self-Help for People Who Hate Self-Help

There is a plethora of coaching and life advice out there and honestly… most of it sucks. Two-time #1Best-Selling author Mark Manson realized this and took to action to start giving people a practical, non-bullsh*t, and scientific approach to life.

You may recognize Mark from his book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck - the most read non-fiction book of 2017. Since releasing the book, he has spoken at some of the most successful companies and top schools in the world with a mission to improve the public conversation around personal development and happiness. 

Don’t miss this episode, where you’ll find out from Mark, and his story, what can happen when you learn how to not give a f*ck.

Things you will learn in this episode: 
[00:01 - 06:51] Opening Segment 

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I introduce today’s guest, Mark Manson

Two-time #1 Best-Seller

Most read Non-fiction book of 2017

Small warning about the language content in this episode

Mark gives some background 

Growing up in Austin, Texas - conservative and traditional

Rejecting the norms of society as a kid

[06:53 - 11:30] A Compulsive Need for Honesty and Authenticity

Mark continues his story 

Starting his first business around relationship advice

Obsession for authenticity in relationships 

Going to college in Boston

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[11:31 - 23:19] Self-Help for People Who Hate Self-Help

Mark talks about his self-discovery

Graduating into a financial crash

Learning how to work remotely 

Going into blogging 

The spark leading to writing philosophy 

Gaining popularity

Starting into research 

The issues in relationships start within

Relationship with the self-help industry 

Self-help for people who hate self-help

A break away from traditional philosophy 

Mark’s story about getting invited to a conference

An epidemic of narcissism in this industry

[23:20 - 28:46] How to Not Give a F*ck

Mark talks about the reasoning behind his book

Free to write about all these topics 

Confronting the norms

Finding your real values

The right thing at the right time for the right people 

The after-effects of releasing the book

Defying expectations 

What the meteoric rise feels like

[28:47 - 37:07] Closing Segment

Who are we and why are we here?

Mark talks about his journey becoming a successful author

What it means to do something meaningful 

Your relationship with others and yourself 

Who you know or what you know?

If you know the right people you’ll be fine

How it relates to meaning - material vs. meaning

How to engage with Mark

Links below

Final words 

Tweetable Quotes: 
“One thing I realized early on in my career was that I had this obsession for authentic relationships. Dishonesty or not portraying your true feelings, like - it just drives me crazy.” - Mark Manson

“There’s no point in talking about the relationship stuff if you’re not going to talk about the individual first.” - Mark Manson

“I think the people who are drawn to my work - they’re like me. They want to improve their lives, they want to be happier and have better relationships and feel better about themselves but they don’t buy into all the cheesy stuff.” - Mark Manson

Resources Mentioned:

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

The Four Hour Work Week

Everything is F*cked: A Message of Hope

Connect with Mark on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Be sure to check out https://markmanson.net/ to learn more about getting life advice that doesn’t suck.

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