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Keeping the peace = keeping you trauma bonded

Author
Sarah Alsawy-Davies
Published
Sun 08 Oct 2023
Episode Link
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In this podcast episode, I want to talk about something that many of us can relate to. Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where you constantly try to keep the peace, always making sure your partner is okay and avoiding any conflicts? You might feel like you're walking on eggshells, nervous about expressing your true thoughts and feelings because you fear it will lead to arguments or you being perceived as the "bad guy."

It's crucial to understand that the primary aim of any relationship should never be solely about keeping the peace. While I recognize that safety can be a significant concern in some relationships, constantly suppressing your needs and desires to maintain harmony can lead to a state of trauma bonding. This is an unhealthy pattern where you become hypersensitive to your partner's reactions, always seeking their approval while trying to avoid criticism.

This podcast episode delves into the complexity of trauma-bonded relationships, where you find yourself sacrificing your true identity to please your partner. Over time, this can erode your sense of self, leaving you feeling hollow and empty when you finally break free.

The episode emphasizes the importance of prioritizing your safet

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