Are You Blocking Love Without Realising It? 10 Signs You Are

10 signs you are self-sabotaging

1. The fear of being vulnerable
2. The constant need for validation
3. Testing your partner for their loyalty / affection
4. Overcompensating and people pleasing
5. Fear of being alone (different to loneliness)
6. Projecting the past into the present relationship
7. Unrealistic expectations (entitlement: hello ego, grandiosity, and narcissism)
8. Inconsistent or avoidant communication
9. Over analysing and excessive worry (ruminating in circles)
10. Lacking boundaries (this is not just an outside thing, but really an internal boundary system)

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

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