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029. How to claim your wins without shrinking

Author
Lucy Char Tay
Published
Mon 23 Jun 2025
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Ok, you’ve been downplaying your wins to keep other people comfortable and it’s killing your confidence.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the quiet shame so many women carry when it comes to celebrating themselves. You hit a goal, you finally feel proud… and then you shrink. You brush it off. You say it was “no big deal.”

Why? Because somewhere along the way, you were taught that shining too brightly makes you “too much.”

But here’s the truth:
Dimming your light doesn’t serve anyone, ESPECIALLY not you.

Inside this fire-filled episode, we talk about:

  • Why you minimise your success (even when you’ve worked your ass off)
  • The difference between arrogance and ownership
  • How shrinking your wins is damaging your self-worth
  • Practical ways to start owning your power without apology

This is your permission slip to stop playing small. To clap for yourself loudly. To own the magic you bring — without guilt, without shame, and without watering it down.

Because confidence doesn’t come from waiting for applause. It comes from giving it to yourself first.

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