Why Porn & Substances Are Ruining Your Relationships (& What to Do Instead)
- Author
- Michael Elliott and Courtney Wren
- Published
- Sat 03 May 2025
- Episode Link
- https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sacredrelating/episodes/Why-Porn--Substances-Are-Ruining-Your-Relationships--What-to-Do-Instead-e327nra
In this vulnerable and transformational solo episode, Mike Elliott shares his personal journey through pornography, substance use, shame, and the path to sacred masculine maturity.
He unpacks how these often-hidden coping mechanisms:
Sabotage intimacy and emotional availability
Keep men stuck in immaturity and isolation
Block the deeper soul gifts of love, leadership, and purpose
You’ll also hear about his upcoming community for men: The Initiated Man.
🕒 Episode Chapters:
00:00 – Welcome to the Podcast 00:54 – Episode Introduction and Apologies
01:36 – Exploring the Impact of Porn and Substance Abuse
04:19 – The Root Causes of Coping Strategies
12:02 – Personal Journey and Early Exposure
20:42 – The Role of Shame and Emotional Needs
22:49 – Substance Abuse and Emotional Regulation
28:08 – The Importance of Co-Regulation and Mature Relationships
34:45 – Healing and Moving Forward
40:14 – Understanding Dysfunction in Relationships
40:36 – Core Roots and Emotional Needs
41:20 – Self-Soothing and Addictions
42:39 – Inner Child Work and Healing
43:47 – Building Safe Connections 46:22 – Directing Energy Towards Partners
47:41 – Embracing Vulnerability in Relationships
49:01 – Personal Growth and Fulfillment
50:47 – Overcoming Coping Strategies
53:00 – Finding Purpose and Mission
01:07:21 – The Initiated Man Community
🎧 Listen now
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