We may "tolerate" sins and bad behoaviour and not speak up, this is not Love! It is people-pleasing. Sin confronted in the proper manner is not tolerance. It may sound cliche. but love the person, do not tolerate the sin. Addiction is hard to overcome and we all have hurts, habits and hangups which need to be dwalt with. Try Celebrate Recovery.
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