#218 - The Most Abused Step in Recovery: Don’t Weaponize the 9th Step

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In this audio newsletter (or maybe Mindset Mondays - still not sure here...working title), Matt tackles one of the most misunderstood and misused ideas in recovery: Step 9’s infamous “except when to do so would injure them or others” clause. Too often, this line becomes a get-out-of-accountability-free card used to avoid hard conversations, hide the truth, and protect ego instead of healing relationships. Matt breaks down what amends actually means, how to avoid performative apologies, and why transparency matters more than comfort. Whether you're in recovery or not, this is a masterclass in integrity, trust, and real ownership. Stop doing things you have to apologize for. Live well, not just sober.

Let the truth set you (and your relationships) free.

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