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This Isn’t Therapy

This Isn’t Therapy... it's a podcast about it!
Therapy themes are everywhere you look— they’re in your relationships, in the culture, and yes, inside of you, Mary! Each week, Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck peel back the therapy curtain to discuss the very things people are talking to their therapists about. Anxiety. Boundaries. People Pleasing. Their narcissistic mother. No topic is off limits!

New episodes drop every Thursday.

The hosts:
Jake: https://www.instagram.com/mswjake
Simon: https://www.instagram.com/directedbysimon
The pod: https://www.instagram.com/notatherapypodcast

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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
40 minutes
Episodes
202
Years Active
2020 - 2025
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ENCORE: Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn

ENCORE: Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn

This Isn't Therapy... it's the episode about the four F's: fight, flight, freeze, and fawn. In this episode, Jake and Simon discuss the four threat responses and how to move through tough situations …

00:49:22  |   Thu 28 Aug 2025
ENCORE: The two most essential skills for relationships

ENCORE: The two most essential skills for relationships

This Isn't Therapy... it's a long overdue convo about the two most essential skills in relationships. In this episode, Jake and Simon discuss a statistic about emotional availability: on average, we …

00:48:08  |   Thu 21 Aug 2025
ENCORE: The invisible toll of parentification

ENCORE: The invisible toll of parentification

This Isn't Therapy... it's the episode about one of the things that robs kids of a care-free childhood: being parentified. When kids are forced to grow up too soon and become adults in childhood, kid…

00:43:15  |   Thu 14 Aug 2025
ENCORE: Parasocial Relationships

ENCORE: Parasocial Relationships

This Isn't Therapy... it's the episode about parasocial relationships; the one-sided emotional connections we have with casual acquaintances, people we "know" online, characters we watch in televisio…

00:38:33  |   Thu 07 Aug 2025
ENCORE: The Empathy Wars

ENCORE: The Empathy Wars

This isn’t therapy… it’s part three in our series about the war on human connection. In this episode, we talk about how overwhelming people with tragic and distressing information about the world lea…

00:46:25  |   Thu 31 Jul 2025
ENCORE: The Opinion Wars

ENCORE: The Opinion Wars

This Isn't Therapy... it's a follow up to last week's episode about the attention wars. In this episode, we explore the concept of "agree to disagree" and how there seems to be a war of opinions play…

00:47:51  |   Thu 24 Jul 2025
ENCORE: The Attention Wars

ENCORE: The Attention Wars

This Isn't Therapy... it's a frank discussion about the "attention economy"—where companies compete to capture our focus to sell us products. We break down the difference between attention, focus, an…

00:41:42  |   Thu 17 Jul 2025
ENCORE: Feeling Hopeless

ENCORE: Feeling Hopeless

This Isn't Therapy... it's our *encore* eppy from our first episode BACKKKK (from last year!!) This week, we're talking about why finding hope can often feel so hopeless in hopeless in times. We peel…

00:41:20  |   Thu 03 Jul 2025
ENCORE: Can AI replace human relationships?

ENCORE: Can AI replace human relationships?

This Isn't Therapy... it's a thought-provoking *encore* episode about the growing influence of artificial intelligence in our personal lives. We ask the big question: Can AI truly replace human relat…

00:52:35  |   Thu 26 Jun 2025
ENCORE: Learning to be alone

ENCORE: Learning to be alone

This Isn't Therapy...this is a flirty fab *encore* conversation about loneliness versus being alone. Through two #lovelylistener stories, Jake and Simon explore feelings around how we can feel lonely…

00:43:53  |   Thu 19 Jun 2025
ENCORE: Is it possible to be

ENCORE: Is it possible to be "too emotional"?

This Isn't Therapy...it’s the ENCORE to our episode about emotions and emotionality. Am I overacting? Under-reacting? In this conversation, Jake and Simon chat about the normal, human, everyday emoti…

00:48:49  |   Thu 12 Jun 2025
The Mind-Body Connection

The Mind-Body Connection

This Isn't Therapy... it's a discussion about the mind-body connection~ wooOOoO!! Nah, in all seriousness, Jake and Simon unpack some interesting data about the gut and how it's being considered a se…

00:39:20  |   Thu 05 Jun 2025
So what are emotions, anyway?

So what are emotions, anyway?

This Isn't Therapy... it's the episode about emotions! In this episode, Jake and Simon respond to a listener question... so what are emotions, anyway? They break down the core emotions and how to dis…

00:43:21  |   Thu 29 May 2025
How to become your true self

How to become your true self

This Isn't Therapy... it's a juicy convo about what it takes to become self-led. In this episode, we talk about self-leadership and how to build a sturdy and reliable self-esteem that doesn't dissolv…

00:53:38  |   Fri 23 May 2025
Validate me, please!

Validate me, please!

This Isn't Therapy... it's an episode about seeking validation (online). Are we becoming obsessed with our quest for constant reassurance, approval, and external validation? In this episode, Jake and…

00:41:08  |   Thu 15 May 2025
The problem with positivity: Unpacking the pressure to be happy

The problem with positivity: Unpacking the pressure to be happy

This Isn't Therapy... it's the episode about the pressure to be happy. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about how to feel authentically happy when there's a lot of pressure to perform positivity …

00:40:14  |   Thu 08 May 2025
Peak Parasocial: The social relationships that aren't

Peak Parasocial: The social relationships that aren't

This Isn't Therapy... it's the episode about parasocial relationships; the one-sided emotional connections we have with casual acquaintances, people we "know" online, characters we watch in televisio…

00:38:33  |   Thu 01 May 2025
Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn

Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn

This Isn't Therapy... it's the episode about the four F's: fight, flight, freeze, and fawn. In this episode, Jake and Simon discuss the four threat responses and how to move through tough situations …

00:49:22  |   Thu 24 Apr 2025
The two most essential skills for relationships

The two most essential skills for relationships

This Isn't Therapy... it's a long overdue convo about the two most essential skills in relationships. In this episode, Jake and Simon discuss a statistic about emotional availability: on average, we …

00:48:08  |   Thu 17 Apr 2025
Have we lost the plot in our attempts to de-stigmatize mental health?

Have we lost the plot in our attempts to de-stigmatize mental health?

This Isn't Therapy... it's a conversation about mental health stigma and how we may have lost the plot in our attempts to de-stigmatize mental health. In this episode, we unpack RaQuel Hopkins' viral…

00:52:06  |   Thu 10 Apr 2025
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