033_Living, Learning in Love with Lar

“The very center of your heart is where life begins – the most beautiful place on earth.” – Rumi

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” -Rumi & ACIM

In this week’s episode I have invited my yummy life partner in joy and love, my husband Lar. for a conversation about how we have learned to live a life of Love and truth. We talk about how we met and how we let love teach us what relationship is — where love is at the heart of how we share who we are with one another.  We talk about being honest as primary. About receiving, and accepting one another unconditionally, trusting love to teach us what relationship is for us. To put love at the forefront — when shit happen, we just stay in the room, stay in the conversation, until love finds us.

We talk about living in integrity. Where our words and actions are aligned. And ultimately letting love lead. Relationship is recognizing our shared being — which is LOVE.  The truth is that we truly are already in relationship with everyone and everything. 

Can you feel that recognition? If not, some belief, something in your personal, programmed matrix, is getting in the way and it is painting a picture of limitation and separation on what you see. 

We talk about how whatever life throws at us, we can accept it just as it is. We can always look with Love and see anything and everyone as a gift from life. A chance to see where we resist, where we hold fear, threat and judgement in our minds. To forgive and let love show us another way to view the situation. 

Lar shares his experience of finding out he had stage 4 kidney cancer and how he, and we, chose to accept it, and to trust we’d be guided through loving each moment with cancer in our lives. We accept what is, welcome it all with a wholehearted YES, what now? And let love show us the next step. 

This is living the yummy way. It’s not that we won’t have shit come up. We will. We do. It is what we choose to do with it, where the alchemy happens. Love is always asking us to pause, take stalk and choose in to this present moment.  

Whatever the situation is, no matter how seemingly difficult it might appear, it contains within it a gift — a recognition of the beliefs we hold, the fears and judgements getting in the way of peace of mind, a chance to forgive, to love and welcome — to see our shared being with everyone and everything, to tune into our innate joy and love. 
We can let go of that initial reaction and open our mind to another way of seeing. Love will find us through our willingness. 

I thank Lar for sharing this yummy conversation with me and all of you. I loved it. 

It’s so fun to see what happens when we accept the shifts and changes that come our way and open up to new possibilities. Like with this Yummy Way podcast... Can’t wait to see what show up next...

Have a yummy week & a yummy day!!!