"If you want to fit in, you won't stand out. If you want to stand out, you can't fit in. So we're going to create some boldness by getting really clear for you on what your most core values are... what makes your heart sing." - Jen Briggs
This week I'm sharing one of my most powerful exercises for creating magnetic attraction in your life. When we try to be everything to everyone, we end up diluting our uniqueness and attracting relationships that don't truly serve us. This episode walks you through identifying your deepest values, transforming them into belief statements, and having the courage to let go of connections that no longer fit your authentic self. It might feel scary to repel some people - that's normal! Our primal brains fear rejection. But I promise you, on the other side of that fear is a life that feels so much more aligned, vibrant, and connected. This is your invitation to shine brightly in your uniqueness, knowing you're contributing perfectly to our collective ecosystem.
CHAPTERS:
0:00 Introduction: Standing Out vs. Fitting In
1:22 The Power of Values to Attract & Repel
2:58 Finding Your Joy & What Makes Your Heart Sing
5:54 Transforming Anger into Value Statements
7:59 Creating Belief Statements From Your Values
11:49 The Hard Truth: Sometimes You Can't Belong
17:33 Your Uniqueness Serves the Whole
RESOURCES:
- Book Recommendation: "Start With Why" by Simon Sinek
-TED Talk: Simon Sinek's 18-minute talk on Starting with Why
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