How do you want to show up this holiday season? Because I guarantee that Aunt Sue is going to keep being a jerk and Grandpa will keep making racist remarks. And no matter how good a comeback you have, you are not going to change them over Christmas dinner. So how can you prepare ahead of time to help these holidays, and anytime really, go better? It's not by preparing for battle! Instead try these 3 simple methods to go in prepared and to help you show up as the best version of you.