Where’s the Groom? Fixing the Invisible Fiancé Problem

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In this episode of The Wedding Help Desk, we’re tackling the all-too-common phenomenon of the disappearing groom. Why do so many fiancés check out of wedding planning? Is it laziness — or is something deeper going on?

We’ll break down the real reasons grooms disengage, how to bring your partner back into the process (without resentment), and what roles grooms are actually great at — if they’re given the chance.

Plus, we’ll share helpful scripts, smart strategies, and a few lightbulb moments that just might shift your whole approach to planning together.

👔 Want to give your groom a guide he’ll actually read? Grab a copy of You’ve Got the Ring, Now What? — a book written specifically for him.

📹 Need structure for both of you? Check out The W.E.D. Blueprint — a video-based planning tool designed to reduce overwhelm and build connection.

🎧 Listen now — because weddings aren’t just about the day… they’re about how you work as a team.

🎵 Music Credit: “Candyland” by Tobu Licensed under Creative Commons (CC-BY 3.0)