76. How to Totally Delude Yourself (In the Best Way) to Get What You Want

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WELCOME to another episode of The Universe Is Your Friend Podcast!

Tell me, do you ever feel like manifestation advice makes sense in theory, but when you try to actually embody it, your mind wanders, your doubts flare up, and you slip back into your old reality?

Today we’re diving into one of the deepest truths of manifesting anything you want—whether it’s a free coffee, a life upgrade, or your million-dollar dream—and that truth is this:

You have to already be your desire—in your mind, your body, your beliefs, your entire energy system.

That level of embodiment is so powerful that your manifestation doesn’t just feel possible—it feels inevitable. Today I break down exactly what it means to live in that energy, how I recently applied it to one of my biggest upcoming manifestations (weeks away from arrival), and why most people unknowingly sabotage themselves because they never fully commit to their desired reality in advance.

You’ve heard it before, right? “Feel it before you see it,” “act as if,” “live in the end,” and so on. But it never truly clicked—maybe because you focused too much on the technique instead of actually shifting your energy. After all:

• How do you ignore your current reality when it's still right in front of you?
• How do you “act as if” when your bank account doesn’t reflect it?
• How do you stay steady when your mind drifts into doubt?

These questions used to exhaust me. I’d try to craft the perfect visualisation routine but it never stuck—because I wasn’t prepared energetically to embody those beliefs deeply enough.

Recently I had a breakthrough: I decided I wanted this desire so badly that I fully invested in living it now—emotionally, mentally, spiritually—before it showed up externally. I spent a dedicated hour EFT tapping while vividly imagining every single detail of what life would look like after manifesting. I pictured months of my future reality:

• Waking up in a new space
• Moving differently in my body
• Buying differently, speaking differently, thinking differently
• Feeling differently, because so many of my current worries would finally be solved

Once this became inevitable in my mind, the possibility of it not happening felt bizarre. Doubt had nowhere to cling... and when you feel that your desire is the next logical thing to happen? That's when your manifestation is RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER!

So join me today as I walk you through:

• Reprogramming your subconscious beliefs with EFT Tapping 
• Creating a vision so precise and satisfying, you can't help but align with it all day long 
• Creating such unshakable faith in your new reality, you effortlessly make decisions and take action from the energy of your highest-self  
• A daily routine that will make even your wildest desires feel like "Duhh? Of course this is my life!"

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