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You're Not Broken: Why you feel Numb Even Though life is "Fine"

Author
Janice Holland
Published
Wed 03 Sep 2025
Episode Link
https://thetraumateacher.podbean.com/e/youre-not-broken-why-you-feel-numb-even-though-life-is-fine/

Feel numb even when life looks perfect? This isn’t just anxiety or depression—it’s your nervous system in survival mode. You’re not broken.


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00:00 Understanding Anxiety and Numbness


02:10 The Impact of Survival Mode


04:58 Courageous Living and Creating Safety


07:22 The Importance of Rest and Pleasure


09:33 Identifying Signs of Being Stuck


12:10 Strategies for Change and Growth


Key Takeaways:


- Anxiety and numbness are survival responses, not personality flaws.


- You’re not alone—these feelings are common and valid.


- Creating safety within yourself is the first step to healing.


- Rest and pleasure are essential for emotional well-being.


- Micro moments of joy recalibrate your nervous system.


- Change is uncomfortable, but necessary for growth.


 


Are you struggling with emotional numbness, anxiety, or feeling empty even when your life looks fine? In this video, trauma therapist Janice Holland explains why you might feel numb, how trauma responses work, and practical steps to reconnect with your emotions. If you’ve Googled “why do I feel numb?” or “emotional numbness explained,” you’re in the right place.


 


Which takeaway hit home for you? Share your story in the comments—you’re helping others feel less alone.


 


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