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248. The Real Reason Why You Can’t Stay Consistent

Author
Rebecca Haydon, Mindset Coach & NLP Practitioner
Published
Tue 09 Sep 2025
Episode Link
https://rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/the-real-reason-why-you-cant-stay-consistent

Ever bought that perfect planner thinking THIS time you'll finally follow through? Let me tell you exactly why you can't stay consistent – and gorgeous, it's not what you think. I'm about to blow your mind with something that goes way deeper than discipline or willpower.

You know that frustrating pattern where you're perfect for a week, maybe a month, then suddenly you're back to square one? There's a hidden reason your subconscious keeps sabotaging you, and it has NOTHING to do with being lazy.

I'm exposing the three invisible loops that control every single behaviour in your business (and why 99% of entrepreneurs are trying to fix the wrong one). Plus, I'll reveal why those colour-coded calendars and habit trackers are actually keeping you stuck. What if I told you there's a completely backwards approach that makes consistency automatic – no forcing, no negotiating with yourself, just obvious action?


This goes against everything you've been taught about building habits, but once you hear it, you'll never look at your business behaviours the same way again.



Topics covered on The Real Reason Why You Can’t Stay Consistent:

  1. Why does forcing behaviour change feel like holding a beach ball underwater (and always pop back up)?
  2. Why can't you stay consistent – is it really about your willpower?
  3. Why does your subconscious sabotage you even when you know all the right strategies?
  4. What are the three subconscious loops that keep entrepreneurs stuck on repeat?
  5. How can you flip the script and start with identity first to make consistency automatic?



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Find the full show notes & more resources at www.rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/the-real-reason-why-you-cant-stay-consistent

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