If Nobody Told You (Pt. 3): It Was Never About Them. It Was Always About You.

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How long are you going to betray yourself just to keep being loyal to people who stopped being loyal to you a long time ago?

You’ve spent too much time dimming your light, second-guessing your worth, and shaping yourself to fit places God already called you out of.

In this unfiltered episode of The Squad Podcast, Coach Tocha Moore dismantles the lies of people-pleasing and reminds you: the betrayal, the silence, the shade—it was never rejection. It was redirection. It was God saying, “I’m pulling you out so I can pour into you.”

This episode is part of the If No One Told You – Let Me Be the First series and is rooted in Tocha’s signature message of Fighting for H.E.R.—Healing, Evolution, and Reclaiming.

You were created on purpose, for purpose. 

And no one’s opinion gets to rewrite what God already authored.

No more apologizing. No more shrinking. No more waiting for approval.

It’s time to stop performing and start becoming. Because baby…

It was never about them. It’s always been about YOU.

Thank you for joining us on this journey to empowerment. Remember, you are worth fighting for H.E.R.