Why You Keep Dating The Wrong Guy And What To Do About It

In this week's episode, Eli tackles the reasons why many people keep dating the same toxic partners and emphasizes the importance of self-accountability and personal growth in the dating process. He urges listeners to examine their patterns and the love they're used to versus the love they truly need, stressing the necessity of building a fulfilling life outside of relationships. Eli discusses how understanding one's non-negotiables and embracing self-love can lead to healthier dating experiences, while also encouraging listeners to redefine their perception of safety and excitement in relationships. He wraps up by offering tools and insights to help listeners break free from negative dating cycles and find partners that align with their true selves.

This week Eli sits down with Dr. Sarah Hensley, a social psychologist and relationship expert, to discuss attachment styles and how they influence dating dynamics. Dr. Hensley shares

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00:00 Cold Open

00:33 Welcome to the Self Hype Podcast

00:44 Why We Keep Finding the Same Type of Partner

02:37 The Importance of Self-Accountability

05:26 Creating a Fulfilling Life Beyond Dating

08:28 Defining Your Path and Finding the Right Partner

16:26 Understanding the Love You're Used To vs. The Love You Need

22:11 The Allure of the Flashy Guy

22:54 Finding Value in Safety

24:40 Learning from Failed Relationships

26:41 Setting Non-Negotiables

28:29 Navigating Awkward Dates

30:57 Intentional Communication

33:36 Self-Love and Accountability

39:54 The Ancestral Perspective

41:51 Embracing the Dating Journey

43:18 Conclusion and Next Steps

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