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The Self-Hype Podcast

Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.

Society & Culture Education Self-Improvement Relationships
Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
39 minutes
Episodes
85
Years Active
2020 - 2025
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The No BS Blueprint To Never Date An Avoidant Again

The No BS Blueprint To Never Date An Avoidant Again

You don’t need six months to see the truth—you need a process. In this episode, Eli gives you a three-date blueprint to identify avoidant patterns early: intentional check-ins, direct values alignmen…

00:34:45  |   Thu 11 Sep 2025
How To Stay Motivated At Any Age With Coach Suzi Jalowsky

How To Stay Motivated At Any Age With Coach Suzi Jalowsky

In a refreshing and honest conversation on the Selfhype Podcast, Eli Vasquez welcomes the infectiously positive Suzi Jalowsky to share the story behind her viral fitness fame. What began with workout…

00:42:50  |   Thu 04 Sep 2025
How Social Media Is Destroying Modern Dating In 2025 (And How to Protect Yourself From it)

How Social Media Is Destroying Modern Dating In 2025 (And How to Protect Yourself From it)

Why does dating feel like a never-ending cycle of disappointment? Eli dives into the sneaky ways social media rewires our brains to expect heartbreak, distrust, and division in love. From heartbreak …

00:33:00  |   Thu 28 Aug 2025
Unpacking Trauma with Erin Valente: How To Redefine And Heal

Unpacking Trauma with Erin Valente: How To Redefine And Heal

Episode Introduction:

Erin Valente is a compassionate therapist and content creator whose deep curiosity about people and their stories fuels her mission to make mental health more approachable and…

00:54:28  |   Thu 21 Aug 2025
Stop Dating His Potential: The Truth About Wasted Time in Love

Stop Dating His Potential: The Truth About Wasted Time in Love

In this raw and real episode of the Self Hype Podcast, Eli Vazquez delivers a no-nonsense wake-up call about the trap of falling for "potential" in relationships. With his signature wit and straight …

00:27:46  |   Thu 14 Aug 2025
From Trauma to Triumph: How To Tap Into Your Most Authentic Self w/ Brittani Ard

From Trauma to Triumph: How To Tap Into Your Most Authentic Self w/ Brittani Ard

This episode of the SelfHype Podcast features Brittani Ard, a resilient architect and storyteller who transformed personal pain into a powerful narrative. Brittani shares her gripping story with Eli,…

01:04:38  |   Thu 07 Aug 2025
Why You Keep Attracting The Same Toxic Guy And How To Break The Cycle

Why You Keep Attracting The Same Toxic Guy And How To Break The Cycle

This week Eli breaks down how we constantly end up with same type of people and how on a inner work level challenge yourself to uncover not only why you do so but how to break the cycle for good. All…

00:24:24  |   Thu 31 Jul 2025
What We Are Getting Wrong About Divorce w/ Divorce Lawyer Michele Locke

What We Are Getting Wrong About Divorce w/ Divorce Lawyer Michele Locke

This episode of the SelfHype Podcast features Michele Locke, a dynamic divorce lawyer who’s lived every angle of family law—from navigating her parents divorce as a child to facing her own after 22 y…

00:55:33  |   Thu 24 Jul 2025
Special Birthday Episode: How To Manage Your Mental Health While Looking For Love

Special Birthday Episode: How To Manage Your Mental Health While Looking For Love

In this raw and heartfelt birthday episode of the Self Hype Podcast, Eli Vazquez opens up about his journey with mental health and its profound impact on love and life. Recorded just before his birth…

00:47:58  |   Thu 17 Jul 2025
From Combat to Calling: Kristofer Goldsmith on Turning Trauma Into Purpose

From Combat to Calling: Kristofer Goldsmith on Turning Trauma Into Purpose

This week Eli we discuss men's mental health and so much more with Kristofer Goldsmith who is a combat veteran, investigative researcher, and nationally recognized expert on disinformation and domest…

01:03:21  |   Thu 10 Jul 2025
How To Practice Accountability To Transform Your Love Life

How To Practice Accountability To Transform Your Love Life

This week we are talking all things accountability! Why it so important, how to create a healthy inner child healing system around your own accountability and why men struggle with it. We dive into t…

00:23:04  |   Thu 03 Jul 2025
Why Your Ex Is Toxic, Why It's A Good Thing And So Much More!

Why Your Ex Is Toxic, Why It's A Good Thing And So Much More!

This week we are answering community questions! That is right! We are diving into answering questions about your musty, dusty, rusty man. Cheating, how to heal in ways no one talks about and more! 

 

00:33:47  |   Thu 26 Jun 2025
How To Heal Your Wounds With Money To Find Healthy Partnership w/Lea Landaverde

How To Heal Your Wounds With Money To Find Healthy Partnership w/Lea Landaverde

This week on the Self-Hype Podcast we dive into how your relationship with money could be holding you back from finding true love. Join Eli Vazquez and Latina wealth activist Lea Landaverde, queer fi…

01:26:21  |   Thu 19 Jun 2025
How To Communicate With An Emotionally Avoidant Man

How To Communicate With An Emotionally Avoidant Man

This week we are talking all things communication w/ an avoidant attached partner! I dissect and break down the nitty gritty of how to created regulated spaces of communication in a relationship and …

00:29:20  |   Thu 12 Jun 2025
How To Love Your Body By Resetting Your Nervous System w Giulia Halkier

How To Love Your Body By Resetting Your Nervous System w Giulia Halkier

This week I sit down with Giulia Halkier. Giulia Halkier is a passionate, no-BS Body Confidence and Food Freedom Coach, educator, speaker, and Master Certified EFT Practitioner who helps women break …

00:47:07  |   Thu 05 Jun 2025
How Healing Your Inner Child Changes Your Love Life

How Healing Your Inner Child Changes Your Love Life

This week we are talking about the inner child. I go into my personal life and talk about my battle with imposter syndrome and how that has impacted my life. Where my inner child comes into my healin…

00:29:22  |   Thu 29 May 2025
Your Fertility, Your Hormones, Your Power — Stefanie Adler Breaks It Down

Your Fertility, Your Hormones, Your Power — Stefanie Adler Breaks It Down

This week I sit down with Stefanie Adler, a Certified Nutrition Consultant (CNC), Functional Diagnostic Nutritionist (FDN), and women’s hormone and fertility expert. As the host of the Wisdom of the …

00:54:29  |   Thu 22 May 2025
Why You Can't Move On And 3 Hard Truths To Heal Like A Boss

Why You Can't Move On And 3 Hard Truths To Heal Like A Boss

This week I am cutting the damn BS when it comes to moving on and healing. These are the 3-KEY nitty gritty hard truths everyone needs to know in order to properly move on. I don't hold back on this …

00:23:56  |   Thu 15 May 2025
How To Awaken Your Most Authentic Self w/ Mindset & Branding Coach Donavan Barrett

How To Awaken Your Most Authentic Self w/ Mindset & Branding Coach Donavan Barrett

This week I sit down with Donavan Barrett, a man who I truly get inspired by through his heartfelt and intentional storytelling online. He has worked with people around the world and served hundreds …

00:43:34  |   Thu 08 May 2025
The 3 Life Changing Ways To Create An Abundant Life After Heartbreak

The 3 Life Changing Ways To Create An Abundant Life After Heartbreak

I know you're probably hurting, worried and hard to envision a life after your partner. This is the #1 issue I deal with when coaching clients and I have built a system of hard emotional, brain shift…

00:36:44  |   Thu 01 May 2025
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