Ep #23: Coming Out Later in Life, Queer Dating & Anxious Attachment with Inez Bye

This episode is for every human who’s ever thought: “Am I actually into men… or am I just addicted to their validation?” 😳 …or “I think I might be queer, but I’m terrified of what that means.” Today I’m joined by the brilliant Inez Bye - queer content creator, business coach, and one of my real-life besties, for a no-holds-barred convo on coming out later in life, dating women for the first time, and how anxious attachment still finds a way to sneak in… even when you finally feel like you’ve met “your people.”

We’re talking:
• That moment when you realise you might be queer (and what happens when you suppress it for years.)
• Dating women after only ever dating men and why it can actually bring up more anxiety, not less.
• The fantasy of queer dating vs. the reality.
• Pedestalling queer women, ignoring red flags, and confusing emotional chaos with connection.
• The surprising way dating women changed Inez’s relationship with her body (and why it might do the same for you.)
• Rewriting your standards and detaching from the male gaze for GOOD!

🎧 Tune in now—and if it speaks to you, send me a DM on Instagram, I would love to hear what landed for you.

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