Ep #13: Why You Keep Falling for Emotionally Unavailable People (And How to Break the Cycle)

Ever feel like you always fall for the person who sends mixed signals, keeps you guessing, and never fully commits? You’re not alone. In this episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, we’re diving deep into why emotionally unavailable people feel so magnetic—and why breaking this cycle feels nearly impossible. I’m sharing my own journey from anxious attachment to security, unpacking the real reasons you keep getting stuck in this pattern (spoiler: it’s not your fault!). We’ll talk about: how childhood experiences shape your attraction to unavailable partners, why the emotional rollercoaster feels like love (but isn’t), he nervous system’s role in keeping you hooked on the chase, and practical steps to break free and start choosing healthy, secure relationships. Let’s break the cycle together. 🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear your thoughts!

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