21 Episode - How Family Secrets Shape Our Lives—and How to Heal

Every family has that one thing no one talks about. A betrayal. A lie. A secret agreement to pretend it never happened.

In this episode, Robert shares powerful real-life stories of hidden pain, unspoken shame, and how emotional programs are passed down through generations. Together, we explore how families unconsciously mirror and mimic the very patterns they swore they’d never repeat.

Whether it was addiction, abuse, abandonment—or simply the quiet rule to “never speak of it again”—these secrets don’t disappear. They drive our choices. They become the unspoken rules we live by.

Crystal Derksen, cohost of The Robert Gene Experience, and host Robert Gene — behavioral engineer, drug rehab consultant, and creator of eutaptics® FasterEFT™ — lead a deep and revealing conversation on generational trauma, hidden family dynamics, and emotional healing.

The episode also features special guest Chynna, who shares her personal journey and how working with eutaptics® FasterEFT™ helped her transform the patterns that once defined her life.