RICH CELENZA talks about how important it is to stay attractive looking when in a relationship. A lot of people pretend that once in a relationship it doesn't really matter how attractive or sexy looking they are. Rich thinks that's a bunch of nonsense. People also don't like to admit is that they let themselves go once they get into a serious relationship or married. That is one of the worse things people could do. DO NOT underestimate the way you look when it comes to your identity. No one is saying you have to look like a superstar, but if you let yourself go, don't think it won't hurt your relationship in the long run because it just might.