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#125 - Why Emotionally Healthy Men Can Feel ‘Boring’ at First?

Author
Teal Elisabeth
Published
Thu 04 Sep 2025
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In this episode of the Relaxing To Love podcast, Teal Riege explores the reasons why emotionally healthy men may initially feel boring compared to the excitement of emotionally unavailable partners. She discusses the impact of nervous system imprinting on attraction, the difference between trauma bonding and real connection, and how to retrain oneself to embrace healthy love. Teal emphasizes the importance of recognizing emotional safety and building a secure foundation for relationships, encouraging listeners to reflect on their attachment styles and patterns in love.


Takeaways:

  • Emotionally healthy men can feel boring due to past trauma.
  • Nervous system imprinting affects our attraction to partners.
  • Stability in relationships may feel less exciting than chaos.
  • Recognizing emotional safety is crucial for healthy connections.
  • Trauma bonding creates a cycle of craving chaos and drama.
  • True connection is calm and emotionally nourishing.
  • Craving excitement can indicate an unhealthy attachment style.
  • Retraining your nervous system can help embrace healthy love.
  • Building attraction takes time and emotional safety.
  • You are not broken; healing is a process.



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