We can get distracted by the word “Marriage” “committed” relationships Wife and Husband. We hold fast to these words. From what I gather we use words to help us define what it we are doing. Why do I say distracted? Well, it’s simple really. I’m not working on my marriage or relationship, I’m working on me. And that’s it. We are the living persons. Words are just titles, they are the beginning of the surface understanding.