Rejecting Consensus Reality - with Christian de la Huerta

Today's episode features Christian de la Huerta and his story of reclaiming himself from other people's expectations.  Christian is an author, TedX speaker, and personal transformation coach whose latest book explores the relationship of love, choice, and power.  Christian and I discuss topics as wide as toxic masculinity, how power is not zero-sum, and the holistic nature of love.

REFERENCES:
Christian de la Huerta’s Website:  https://soulfulpower.com/

Follow Christian on Facebook:  http://facebook.com/groups/unleashyourinnerhero

Follow Christian on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/christiandlh/

Follow Christian on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@soulfulpower6929

Follow Christian on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/christiandelahuerta/

• (00:00) - Opening credits
  


• (00:37) - Show opening
  


• (01:31) - Introducing Christian de la Huerta
  


• (02:28) - Our ambivalent relationship with power
  


• (07:02) - Giving our power away
  


• (09:17) - Finding the balance between the masculine and feminine
  


• (12:20) - The price for men of toxic masculinity
  


• (15:03) - Misunderstanding our roles in the Universe
  


• (18:54) - Popping out of consensus reality
  


• (23:42) - Playing the victim card
  


• (28:04) - Power is not a zero-sum game
  


• (32:55) - Challenging our relationship to power
  


• (38:04) - Communication and power relationships
  


• (40:32) - Fulfillment as a definition of success
  


• (42:33) - Love and the ego
  


• (48:07) - Love, the Self, and Self-Love
  


• (54:21) - How to find Christian de la Huerta on the internet
  


• (59:54) - Show closing
  


• (01:02:19) - Closing credits