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35 Years of Marriage: Rufus & Jenny's Secret to Success

Author
theoasishaqqislam
Published
Thu 01 May 2025
Episode Link
https://theoasishaqqislam.podbean.com/e/35-years-of-marriage-rufus-jennys-secret-to-success/

This episode of The Oasis features a conversation with Rufus and Jenny Triplett, a power couple who have celebrated 35 incredible years of marriage. Named Ebony Magazine's 2012 Couple of the Year and recognized for their appearances on TLC, CNN, The Real Housewives of Atlanta, and TED Talks, Rufus and Jenny bring wisdom, humor, and authenticity to this inspiring discussion. From their journey as military veterans to publishing the bestselling book "Surviving Marriage in the 21st Century," which sold over 500,000 copies, they share the secrets behind their enduring love, family values, and entrepreneurial spirit. In this episode, Rufus and Jenny discuss how faith, particularly Islam, has been the cornerstone of their relationship and business practices.


They reflect on their cultural identities, including Rufus's roots as a third-generation Muslim and Jenny’s unique journey to embracing the faith. The couple also dives into their impactful work within the community, including their groundbreaking Prison World Magazine, and the challenges they've overcome along the way. With thoughtful advice on navigating modern relationships, balancing independence, and fostering mutual respect, this episode is for you if you're seeking inspiration, guidance, or simply a heartfelt story of resilience and love. Whether you're fascinated by their work with incarcerated individuals, or looking for tips to strengthen your own marriage, Rufus and Jenny's story is one you won't want to miss. Plus, hear their reflections on memorable travels to places like Dubai and Tanzania, their music industry connections (including a fun nod to the iconic rock band Ready for the World), and their thoughts on societal shifts in black male-female relationships today.


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CHAPTERS:


00:00 - Intro


01:37 - How Did You Meet?


05:42 - Sustaining the Relationship


09:14 - Islam's Influence on Your Lives


10:52 - Islam as the Center of Your Life


14:39 - Starting Prison World Magazine


16:53 - Black Marriages Today


27:55 - Surviving Marriage in the 21st Century


28:16 - Self-Publishing Their Book


30:16 - Love That Inspired the Book


31:53 - Memorable Travel Experiences


38:11 - Common Marriage Struggles


43:53 - Final Advice


45:54 - Recommended Products


47:58 - Surviving Marriage in Modern Times

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