How do you rebuild your financial independence after a divorce?
In this episode of The Moving On Method® Podcast, Michelle Dempsey-Multack speaks with Ashley Miller (Madam Trader) about closing the wealth gap, overcoming financial fear, and taking practical steps toward financial freedom. Together, they unpack how women can transform money from a source of stress into a tool for empowerment, choice, and resilience.
What You’ll Learn:
Why financial literacy is a form of freedom, and a key to leaving toxic relationships
How to take stock of assets, liabilities, and cash flow after divorce
Practical shifts to reduce expenses and align spending with values
Why investing, not just saving, is critical for long-term security
The mindset shift every divorced woman needs to reclaim her financial independence
Episode Highlights:
02:40 – Why money is more than numbers—it’s a tool for freedom and choice
06:55 – How Ashley created Madam Trader to spotlight women in finance
11:30 – The truth about the wealth gap and its long-term impact on women
16:05 – Where to start when rebuilding your finances post-divorce
20:50 – The danger of competing financially with your ex after separation
25:20 – Building a pre-investing foundation: emergency funds and debt management
29:45 – Why compounding interest is one of the greatest wealth-building tools
32:30 – Final insights: how to shift your money mindset and invest with confidence
Meet the Guest:
Ashley Miller, known as Madam Trader, is a finance professional and educator dedicated to helping women take charge of their financial futures. Through her podcast and coaching, she spotlights successful women traders, promotes financial literacy, and empowers women to close the wealth gap.
Tools, Frameworks, or Strategies Mentioned:
Madam Trader Approach – storytelling and education to normalize women in finance
Pre-Investing Checklist – emergency funds, debt payoff, and employer match strategies
Compound Interest Framework – using time and consistency to grow wealth exponentially
Ellevest Platform – an accessible robo-advisor and impact investing tool designed for women
Closing Insight:
“Money is a tool. The less you understand it, the more it controls your life. The more you understand it, the more freedom you have.” – Ashley Miller
By building financial literacy and investing consistently, women can reclaim independence, model resilience for their children, and create a future they won’t have to recover from.
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