Am I raising Entitled or Experienced Kids...the parenting struggle

What is spoiling your kiddos too much? I personally am going through a struggle of providing my children when toys that they WILL (and I will) enjoy, balanced with their understanding that they should not develop expectations to receive items from everyone, but when they do they need to be thankful and show gratitude. Listen in to my thoughts and experience recently on the matter...i would LOVE to hear your experience and lessons learned via FB or IG on The Military Working Mom.