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Surviving Life After Rugby – Dafydd James Breaks the Silence

Author
Gurthro Steenkamp
Published
Tue 05 Aug 2025
Episode Link
https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gurthro-steenkamp3/episodes/Surviving-Life-After-Rugby--Dafydd-James-Breaks-the-Silence-e36fna2

In this deeply personal episode with Hosts Gurthro Steenkamp and Ben Pegna , Welsh rugby great Dafydd James joins Lessons from the Game to share the untold story of what happens when the stadium lights go off.He talks about his career with Wales and the Lions, the shock of retirement, battling mental health, the loneliness of life post-rugby, and what truly helped him survive.


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00:00 Introduction to a Welsh Legend

03:02 Life After Rugby: The Transition

06:14 Lessons from the Game: Resilience and Teamwork

09:08 The Shift from Amateur to Professional Rugby

12:10 Reflections on a Career: The Loneliness After the Game

15:07 Mental Health and the Struggles of Retired Athletes

17:53 Finding Purpose: Coping Mechanisms and Support

20:55 The Lions Tour: Overcoming Doubts and Criticism

37:27 From South Africa to the British Lions

39:18 The Journey to Professional Rugby

43:10 Mindset of a Professional Player

49:53 The Importance of Self-Reflection

56:39 Career Highlights and Lessons Learned

01:12:04 Living in the Moment and Enjoying Life



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