Episode 034 with Nate 'NastyNate' Tanzman - Healing Toxic Masculinity, Male Vulnerability, Believing In Yourself, Being Scared To Be Different and Letting Go Of Outgrown Identities

(3) Nate Tanzman is a stunt bike rider, motivational speaker and holistic health enthusiast. Jumping right in - Nate heats us up with some realness around the manifestation mindset, law of attraction, affirmations, visualizations, and writing to your future self. We chop up our thoughts on the "don't get your hopes up" type people and we chat family members seeing your choices through 'their' lenses. Nate shines a light on the toxic "failing before you begin" attitude: "If you don't believe you can do it, you won't." We talk about creating a life that doesn't suit us, having different end goals, money really making us happy and "things" bringing false fulfillment. Nate shares his inner emotions, fears, and vulnerabilities of his own personal relationships and history to fearlessly teach others to 'Man Up' and emotionally connect to their feminine energy. Mr. Tanzman digs into himself to find the 'why' and lay it on the table for inspection. We talk about male masculinity, breaking old habits, changing old behaviors, becoming aware of destructive patterns. We inspect sexual desires and pornography, abstinence, relationships, and choosing change. "The light sometimes shines through the wound..." We hit on rebuilding yourself, reframing your viewpoint, redirecting your happiness and creating the man worthy enough to take on your dreams. Nate talks about being a bully and taking advantage of different types of people in his past and how immensely different he sees things now, and we talk daring to be different and letting go of the old you - As well as allowing yourself to evolve and let go of certain aspects of your identity. "...can i let that go?" We mistakingly think we deserve misery and we meet the needs we convince ourselves of. This episode Nate Tanzman brought the heat to the fields of vulnerability and authenticity, it's a real one. Much admiration and gratefulness for this dude. Follow him on socials for similar encouraging content @ nastynate_jr (This episode was recorded February 21st 2020)

Some quotes from the talk:
"We don't put in the effort on purpose because if we do fail we have an excuse and we're not disappointing ourself"
"You can be better than you think you can. Don't hold yourself back."
"I'm not wired like that, yet."
"I wake up every single day and I say what I am."
"A lot of people are scared to associate themselves with something that they are not 'yet'"