103: Post Traumatic Growth

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Episode Pointers:

• Post Traumatic Growth - It is positive change experienced as a result of the struggle with a major life crisis or a traumatic event. 

5 General Areas of Post Traumatic Growth:

1. Develop a sense that new opportunities have emerged from the struggle.

2. Change in relationships with others.

3. Change is an increased sense of one’s own strength – “If I lived through that, I can face anything”.

4. Have a greater appreciation for life in general.

5. Deepening in spiritual or religious domain.                                                                                        

                                                          (Source : https://ptgi.uncc.edu/what-is-ptg/)

•  It’s very important to know that not everyone is going to experience post traumatic growth. And if you don’t want to, this is your choice. But I want to encourage you, that just because not everyone experiences it, doesn’t mean that has to be you. 
• I often use this analogy of building a house. When grief comes into your life, your whole house, foundation, everything is shattered. Everything falls apart around you. 
• With Post Traumatic Growth, you have the opportunity to build a more amazing, stronger, more beautiful house. The house might have some cracks, those are like the scars that you have from the things you have experienced, but with scars comes so much strength. 

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