10 Dumb Things People Say About Their Self-Defense & Fighting Skills #95

Episode Summary:

In this episode, John and Josh take a no-nonsense (and slightly sarcastic) look at some of the most misguided things people say about their self-defense and fighting abilities. From “I’ll just kick them in the groin” to “I fought my brother once,” they break down why these beliefs are dangerous, unrealistic, and often rooted in movie myths instead of reality. Along the way, they share training stories, break down fight footage, and even relive the unforgettable “Josh gets tased” moment.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why “nothing will ever happen to me” is one of the most dangerous self-defense mindsets.
• The myth of the “groin kick win button” and why it’s not a guaranteed fight-ender.
• Strength vs. skill – why technique usually wins.
• “I’ll go crazy” – the flaw in relying on pure aggression.
• The problem with basing confidence on a single high school fight.
• The false security of “I have a weapon” (and why access and legality matter).
• Why sibling wrestling matches don’t prepare you for real attacks.
• The illusion of learning “a few moves” from YouTube without real practice.
• Good instincts aren’t enough under adrenaline and stress.
• Overestimating the “one punch knockout” fantasy.

Key Takeaways:

• Real skill only comes from consistent, realistic training against resisting partners.
• Movies and viral videos create false expectations of how fights work.
• Being a good training partner is just as important as practicing techniques.
• Overconfidence without experience can lead to poor decisions and legal trouble.
• The best self-defense mindset: Train more, suck less.

Links & Resources:

• Train with us online: ClearSky Training
• In-person training: Rocky Mountain Self Defense & Fitness
• Supplements & gear: Suck Less Performance

Closing Message:

Don’t overestimate your skills. Don’t wait until it’s too late. Train consistently, question your assumptions, and remember—self-defense is about preparation, not ego.